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June 27, 2005
A game for suckers
ark left us ladies in the wake of a very steamy post and he offered us a chance to pick up the threads if we disagreed. To be honest I thought the post was great and I agreed with everything he said. He did make one omission though. In his warnings to girls he said; 'You may learn quickly that you can manipulate boys with sexual intoxication...You will sooner or later run into one who will be insecure enough to get violent when you tease.'
By god he's right, but what he failed to mention was that those poor unsuspecting boys should perhaps be warned about this too. You see in their lives they will come across many girls, most of them decent enough, some of them crazy and some who know that they can manipulate men and who do so with glee.
You see I am a keen people watcher. My job inspired this talent because I need to be able to predict situations that might become violent. On the most part, fights that occur will be because of a member of the opposite sex so I keep an eye out for a certain kind of girl. She will be pretty, she will be giggly and she will be flirting with everything in a five mile radius while her boyfriend is next to her.
It is a sick and twisted game that insecure women play called 'how much does my boyfriend love me?' And the object of this game is to make her mate crazy, not with love or lust, but with jealousy. Does he love her enough to fight for her love and her honour? The answer is often yes.
The poor schmo gets played so easily and ends up in a punch-up with some unsuspecting guy and then gets arrested. Meanwhile girlfriend gets to lean back, take in the drama and feel loved...because after all, it is all about her.
So what happens when the answer is no? Sometimes poor schmo figures out how well his chickette has been playing him and she ends up with a black eye. The revenge monster inside of me screams that she deserved it. The truth is that no one deserved it. You see the downside is that once a man hits a woman he is forever branded a woman batterer. He has to face his violent streak and he has to be repulsed by his actions. She gets a black eye and then has sympathy and pity heaped upon her. A less desirable outcome for her, but still a win.
Despicable isn't it? You see the game is a form of abuse, and you boys can either be a willing participant or you can keep your dignity and tell the girl to stuff it and find a lady. Women may look innocent but they can't all be angels like me ;)
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Posted by witnit at June 27, 2005 5:25 AM
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